Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

What I fear most is power with impunity. I fear abuse of power, and the power to abuse

I do not wish women to have power over men; but over themselves.

And there is nothing wastes so rapidly as liberality, for even whilst you exercise it you lose the power to do so, and so become either poor or despised, or else avoiding poverty-rapacious and hated. And a leader should guard himself, above all things, against being despised and hated; and liberality leads you to both. Therefore it is wiser to have a reputation for austerity which brings reproach without hatred, than to be compelled through seeking a reputation for liberality to incur a name for rapacity which begets reproach with hatred. -Niccolò Machiavelli